I asked, "If every moment is different from the rest then how come I feel the same?" She answered, "Noticing differences between the usual and the unusual is part of the livening process." I said, "As a species we are programmed to see patterns and arrangements to promote our own safety." She said, "Whatever distinctions we make on those days when the reality of truth remains immeasurable fashion life." I said, "I like how you never capitalize the 't' in truth when you talk about those things which matter most to you." She said, "There is no evolving possible if the absolutes linger at the far edges of where we wish to go and to be."