I said, "I accidentally dropped the "o" from Hello this morning and created..." She leaped in, "Stop! Don't finish! A little bit of that always goes a long way." I asked, "Are you suggesting that we should do what the soul calls for?" She replied, "Only if all parties recognize that there are three sides to every argument." Thinking out loud, I said, "How is talking about it now seen as a threat?" "Because," she answered, "change never comes from the delights of being comfortable."